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Also consider<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n In addition to the articles on this current page, see the following blogs which have posts related to this topic. Scan down the blog’s page to see various posts. Also see the section “Recent Blog Posts” in the sidebar of the blog or click on “next” near the bottom of a post in the blog.<\/p>\n \u00a9 Copyright Pam Solberg-Tapper<\/a><\/p>\n In today\u2019s business world, it is imperative to be able to disagree with tact and professionalism. My coaching clients find themselves in situations where they disagree with others, yet need to rely on these same people to get work done. The way you tell someone that you disagree really matters. Agreeably Disagree is a helpful technique that lets you disagree with someone without damaging the relationship.<\/p>\n Here are 4 Steps to Agreeably Disagree:<\/p>\n Avoid cutting people off. Never tell them they are wrong \u2013 hear them out.<\/p>\n \u201cI hear what you are saying\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cYou have some points that make sense\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI have not thought about it that way\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cThat is an interesting perspective\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI can see why you see it that way\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI understand why you say that\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cI hear where you are coming from\u201d<\/p>\n Be aware of your body language. Your words need to be congruent with your actions. If you roll your eyes while acknowledging, they will not believe that you are earnest.<\/p>\n Do not start out with \u201cbut, however, nevertheless\u201d. These negative filler words will negate the fact that you are trying to hear them out. They often put people on the defensive and break down the communication.<\/p>\n \u201cIn my experience, I\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cMy understanding is different. I \u2026\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cHave you considered\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cWhat about\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cThe literature\/evidence says\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cBecause of \u2026, I think\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cThe data I collected shows\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n Be sure to include evidence, facts, examples, personal experience, or data to substantiate your viewpoint.<\/p>\n By using the Agreeably Disagree technique, you preserve and strengthen the relationship by showing the other person that you heard them and respect them – even when you disagree.<\/p>\n \u00a9 Copyright Gail Zack Anderson<\/a><\/p>\n We all want to approach conflict situations with clear, honest communication that leads to a productive solution everyone can feel good about. But old habits and norms sometimes block direct, open communication. Use these suggestions as a checklist to see if you are communicating in the best possible way at your organization. If you aren\u2019t, an open discussion and agreement to use these practices might be just what is needed to foster healthy, open communication in conflict situations.<\/p>\n Conflict in communication is universal; being human, we have different wants and needs, and we don\u2019t always communicate perfectly. Keep the lines of communication open, and keep an open mind.<\/p>\n Also consider<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n To round out your knowledge of this Library topic, you may want to review some related topics, available from the link below. Each of the related topics includes free, online resources.<\/p>\n Also, scan the Recommended Books listed below. 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